A Day in the Life of a Sexologist

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#tbt to #2009 when I was #23yearsold and had my own #radioshow on #WCHE talking about sexuality and society, as I do. I always forget that I did this.

#tbt to #2009 when I was #23yearsold and had my own #radioshow on #WCHE talking about sexuality and society, as I do. I always forget that I did this.

If you want a big vulva map taped to your living room wall and a bunch of sex toys on your coffee table, then you want to invite me to your house for my #FemaleOrgasm 101 class! #sexologist #sexed #inhomeparty #thisismyjob #imatworkrightnow

If you want a big vulva map taped to your living room wall and a bunch of sex toys on your coffee table, then you want to invite me to your house for my #FemaleOrgasm 101 class! #sexologist #sexed #inhomeparty #thisismyjob #imatworkrightnow

I will be in the Santa Cruz/San Francisco area on Sunday May 11 if anyone out that way would like to book me for an in-home party. People are always saying “Let me know when you come to ______ ” area where you live that I don’t normally go to, so, this is me letting you know! For those on the west coast, this is a very rare chance to do a party with me without having to pay for my airfare and hotel, so don’t miss out! Email jill@thesexologist.org to discuss. Info on my sex ed parties here.

Wearing tight jeans for #DenimDay today. In 1999 the Italian Supreme Court overturned a rape conviction on the grounds that the teenage victim was wearing tight jeans and the court believed the rapist could not have removed them without her cooperation, and thus concluded she wasn’t actually raped. Today we stand in solidarity with her. It doesn’t matter what someone is wearing, or not wearing. Rape is rape, and there is never a justification. #saam #sexualviolenceawareness

Wearing tight jeans for #DenimDay today. In 1999 the Italian Supreme Court overturned a rape conviction on the grounds that the teenage victim was wearing tight jeans and the court believed the rapist could not have removed them without her cooperation, and thus concluded she wasn’t actually raped. Today we stand in solidarity with her. It doesn’t matter what someone is wearing, or not wearing. Rape is rape, and there is never a justification. #saam #sexualviolenceawareness

When new tester or demo #vibrators need to be charged, it’s important to have a guard cat.  #protip #sexologistlife #guardcat

When new tester or demo #vibrators need to be charged, it’s important to have a guard cat. #protip #sexologistlife #guardcat

It’s not all rainbows and orgasms. Being a self-employed sexuality educator means that I have overhead to pay for in order to be able to bring you my sex ed services, and the small things add up! Today I spent almost $100 just on bubble wrap for shipping online orders. Last year, 53% of my income went to such business expenses. So if you buy my $10 clit cream, only $4.70 goes in my pocket. I only get to keep $141 of a $300 female orgasm party. To think of it on an annual basis, I don’t actually start earning a salary until July 13 every year. Before then, all the money I bring in goes towards business expenses. Just a little insight for you into the world of #smallbusinessownership. #entrepreneur #smallbusinessowner #selfemployed #shopsmallbusiness

It’s not all rainbows and orgasms. Being a self-employed sexuality educator means that I have overhead to pay for in order to be able to bring you my sex ed services, and the small things add up! Today I spent almost $100 just on bubble wrap for shipping online orders. Last year, 53% of my income went to such business expenses. So if you buy my $10 clit cream, only $4.70 goes in my pocket. I only get to keep $141 of a $300 female orgasm party. To think of it on an annual basis, I don’t actually start earning a salary until July 13 every year. Before then, all the money I bring in goes towards business expenses. Just a little insight for you into the world of #smallbusinessownership. #entrepreneur #smallbusinessowner #selfemployed #shopsmallbusiness

Did the Easter #bunny come to your house?

Did the Easter #bunny come to your house?

#Inventory Day! #boxofsextoys #ilovemyjob #sexologist

#Inventory Day! #boxofsextoys #ilovemyjob #sexologist

I was not born yesterday. Please do not send me pictures of your penis under the guise of wanting “professional advice” about your size. Not that this is a service I provide, but if you had an actual problem that somehow required me to look at your penis, and you really wanted a *professional* interaction, you would inquire first about making an appointment for the use of my time, and only show photo of problematic penis after you were asked, not just send an unsolicited dick pic such that a photo of your genitals is the first thing I see when I open the correspondence. If you were concerned about an intestinal issue, would you make an appointment with a gastroenterologist, and provide a stool sample if recommended by the doctor (the *professional* way to proceed), or would you just drop off some turds on the doc’s front steps unannounced? Yeah, it’s like that. #sexologistproblems.

#tbt to that time I taught the steps for putting on a #condom using a body-sized condom and a student. My #sexed programs are at the intersection of informative and hilarious. Email jill@thesexologist.org to inquire about bringing me to your college!

#tbt to that time I taught the steps for putting on a #condom using a body-sized condom and a student. My #sexed programs are at the intersection of informative and hilarious. Email jill@thesexologist.org to inquire about bringing me to your college!